Friday, August 16, 2024

六周年祭语

2024.8.17

六头,
 
你好吗?六年了,多快啊!
 
人常说时间能治愈一切。我不知道,感觉人生的某些遗憾,某种愧疚或许是永远无法用时间冲逝的。其实我们心底珍视的东西都是有重量的。也许最好的方式并不是刻意去放下它,而是学会带着这难以释怀的重量好好生活。
 
平日忙忙碌碌是绝对的常态。人间世事总给人一种杂乱匆匆的感觉,转眼一年又一年。只有静下来时,我依然会常常想起你,想起我们曾经拥有的一切,也总想跟你聊聊我的今天。
 
前些日子看了一部电视剧《去有风的地方》。讲的是一个女孩儿,闺蜜一直想跟她一起去云南玩。但她忙于工作,一直没时间。最后她的闺蜜因患胰腺癌去世,她才决绝地辞去工作,带着遗憾和愧疚,只身一人去云南住了三个月。
 
这让我想起2016年我们一起在云南度过的美好时光 - 轻松恬静,无忧无虑。那几日时间放慢了脚步,让我们尽享丽江古城的优雅和香格里拉那种人间天堂的气息;尽享那里温暖的阳光、轻柔的风…
 
这也让我想起了我们要一起去清迈的约定。记得2017年11月底我最后离开你家时跟你说:“好好保养身体,我们还要一起去清迈呢!” 你默默点头答应了。转眼快七年了,我尚未成行清迈,但总有一天我会去的!
 
孩子们都很有出息。胜胜换了个新工作,挺好的。他成熟懂事,我们时常有空就聊聊。阿宝也很喜欢她在医院的工作,常跟朋友们一起出去爬山、攀岩、享受大自然。今年三月我去加州看她,差一点跟他们一起去沙漠露营。最后因为大风警报没去成。有些遗憾,也许明年春天再试试。

我依然固守着六年前对你的承诺:要替你去爬山、去趟水、去看大千世界!今年初去了秘鲁和玻利维亚;春天又去犹他州攀岩徒步;秋天要到意大利多洛米蒂的大山里拍摄;明年冬天会去日本北海道看仙鹤、看猴子、看那皑皑白雪…
 
我想你的世界一定是恬静有序自由自在的。那里阳光明媚,鲜花永远开着,暖风永远飘着,时间静止,欢笑永在!
 
我在身边这忙忙碌碌又杂乱匆匆的世界里,每天寻找着自己,寻找着曾经和永远的我们…

再回首 恍然如梦
再回首 我心依旧
只有那漫漫的长路 伴着我…

汤培
 

 

Monday, July 22, 2024

The End of the Saga

The battles with government tax agencies are always LONG and HARD. The key to winning is to be persistent and find the right people to help.

Long story short, this is about Michelle's 2016 IL state tax return. Michelle only started working as a medical resident in 7/2016 after she completed med school in 6/2016. For her minimal wage earned from BMC in Boston, she paid her state taxes on time to MA.

7 years later, in 12/2023, IL sent her a letter saying she owed IL state tax for 2016. After 5 months of us struggling with the IL Dept of Rev (IDOR), I finally realized we'd never win against the bureaucratic government agency. So, I reached out to another government agency - IL state District Office - asking for help. 

Kim, our hero, originally rejected my request - based on the usual bureaucratic rules. I didn't give up. In stead, I wrote a long letter to her (under the yellow line) to explain why I needed her help. 

After nearly 3 months of going back and forth - nagging, begging, and pushing, the issue has finally been resolved (email under the blue line). The final outcome didn't meet my expectation, but much better than the alternative...

I told Dr. Michelle during this process, I'm not fighting for money (as the time I spent on this is far more expensive than the payment), I'm fighting for principle.   

 

----- Forwarded Message -----
From: Pei Tang <tang_pei@yahoo.com>
To: District Office <office@repstavamurray.com>
Sent: Monday, July 22, 2024 at 09:31:44 AM CDT
Subject: Re: Form Submission - Contact Form

Good morning, Kim!

We received a letter from IDOR with the final bill of $330.28. In fact, after adjusting for the taxes Michelle had paid to MA, she only owed IL $32. However, the penalty was over $298 -- all because IDOR didn't raise the 2016 tax question until 7 years later in 12/2023.

As much as we disagree with IDOR's approach to this matter, Michelle has sent out the payment to IDOR.

As we finally reached a closure to this unfortunate saga, I couldn't help to feel sorry for thousands of powerless tax payers who were/are in my position but didn't get the help from people like you. I want you to know how grateful we are for your support and understanding. THANK YOU!!

Pei



On Wednesday, May 15, 2024 at 10:45:04 PM CDT, Pei Tang <tang_pei@yahoo.com> wrote:


Hello Kim,

Thanks for forwarding their notes. I understand this is not an easy process. I would not have reached out to you had this been easy.

Please refer to the two letters Michelle sent to them over the past few months (below in purple, with dates). Even though I didn't email you her 2016 MA tax return, I can if needed.

IDOR said in their response that we only provided 2023 documents. That is not true. Please refer to the yellow lines below in Michelle's letters. The first yellow line was from 12/2023 and the other yellow lines were from 3/2024. Michelle provided them with her 2016 MA tax returns and other documents they requested, including her drivers license from 2017-2020 (MA) and 2020-2023 (CA).

As indicated in the last yellow line below, Michelle didn't drive in Boston from 8/2008 through 6/2016. So, she kept her IL driver's license because she didn't have a permanent address in Boston as a student.

All this has been clearly communicated to IDOR. As mentioned to you earlier today, Michelle's 2016 total MA state taxable income was $20,259 - ALL from MA, $0 from IL. So, 1) She has PAID all her taxes on time to MA; and 2) It's really a minimal amount of income she earned as a medical resident.

More importantly, the first inquiry Michelle received from IDOR about her 2016 state tax return was a letter dated 12/18/2023 (as referenced in her first letter below). Because of the holidays and vacations, we didn't get the letter until the end of 12/2023. That's MANY years after 2016. It's very unreasonable to take so long to request documents. I recently contacted our CPA and asked for Michelle's 2016 W-2. He told me that didn't save all the documents after 7 years.

A few minor things I hope you can help us with -

1. The interest and penalty needs to stop until we reach a resolution. 

Per IDOR's 4/22/24 invoice:
Tax payment = $918.
Late filing penalty + all interests and fees =  $757.56
Total Assessment = $1675.56

2. Because my CPA doesn't keep all documents after 7 years, if IDOR needs Michelle's 2016 W-2, they can go to Boston Medical Center to request a copy. On the W-2, Michelle's Boston address recorded.

3. If IDOR still needs Michelle to pay IL tax, they need to recover the tax $$ Michelle has paid to MA. Once Michelle gets the refund from MA, she can pay IL.

4. Again, the interest and penalty must stop while we're working out the solution. 

Michelle is now an ICU doctor in CA. She is very busy saving people's lives. She has spent a lot of time responding to all IDOR's inquiries and providing all relevant documents, including her 2016 state tax filings and payments. She has also provided clear explanations of her history of moving out of IL since 8/2008.     
    
Kim, the reason I reached out to you is because, with everything Michelle has provided and explained, there's got to be a reasonable solution to this unique situation than her being penalized by a place/process where a law-abiding tax payer becomes completely helpless and hopeless. I believe that with your help, we can reach a reasonable solution that's fair to the tax payer.

Thank you again for all your attention and help. I am forever grateful for it and looking forward to a meaningful solution.

***********

December 29, 2023
Account ID = Pxxxxxx


To Whom It May Concern:

I am writing to respond to your letter dated on 12/18/2023 regarding my 2016 state tax return.

Attachment 1 is a copy of your letter from 12/18/2023.

Attachment 2 is my full 2016 state tax return for Massachusetts.  
   
I have not lived in IL since August 2008 when I started college at age 18. I spent 11 years in Boston (2008 to 2019), when I filed all my tax returns with MA on time and with the accurate payments.

In July 2019, I moved to CA. I am currently a CA resident, and I pay taxes in CA.  I only lived in IL with my parents before I went to college at age 18 (before 8/2008). In my 2016 MA tax returns, I used my parents’ IL address because I was moving frequently as a student at the time.

Please make sure you correct ALL your records, including 2016 through 2023. I received similar inquires about my 2017, 2018 state tax returns, to which I have provided my 2017, 2018 MA tax return records.


Michelle Zhang
Taxpayer


********************

March 9, 2024
Account ID = Pxxxxxx


To Whom It May Concern:

I am writing to respond to your letter dated on 2/2/2024 regarding my 2016 state tax return.

Attachment 1 is a copy of your letter from 2/2/2024.

Attachment 2 is a letter I sent to you on 12/29/23 regarding my 2016 state tax return with Massachusetts.  
   
Please review my 12/29/23 letter carefully. With that letter, I also provided the full documentation for my 2016 tax return (including tax forms for Federal and Massachusetts). With this letter, I am once again attaching my 2016 MA State tax return form. As explained before, I used my parent’s IL address on my 2016 tax form because, at the time, I was a student and did not have a permanent address.

In regards to your requested information from your 2/2/2024 letter, I am providing the following –

•    My current driver’s license indicating my CA residence.
•    My 2017-2020 driver’s license indicating my MA residence. I didn’t drive in Boston/MA as a college student from 2008 to 2012 or as a medical school student from 2012-2016.
•    My current car registration indicating my CA residence.
•    My 2023 Bank 1099 form indicating my CA residence.
•    My 2023 Employer 1099 form indicating my CA residence.

Please clean up your records. I am NOT an IL resident, as clearly stated in my previous letters to you.


Michelle Zhang
Taxpayer



On Wednesday, May 15, 2024 at 01:29:37 PM CDT, District Office <office@repstavamurray.com> wrote:


Pei -

Unfortunately, the outcome is not what you were hoping for.  Here is the reply I received from our department liaison:

The constituent is still considered domicile in Illinois for 2016. The items they provided your office, and the Department are from 2023, which doesn’t support proof of residency in the state they were physically residing in during 2016. They also never established a permanent residence outside of Illinois in 2016. They chose to use the Illinois address, which they acknowledge in the emails below. There’s nothing we can do to change the outcome here, and the longer the liability goes unaddressed, the more interest and penalty fees will accrue.  


Thank you again for contacting the office of State Representative Anne Stava-Murray.  Please do not hesitate to do so again in the future.

Kind regards,

Kim Brondyke, Chief of Staff
State Representative Anne Stava-Murray

Thursday, June 20, 2024

Is iPhone listening to my conversations???

The scary suspicions have finally been confirmed - by Apple tech support staff - YES, it listens to conversations over the phone AND conversations in-person even when iPhone is NOT being used!!

The initial suspicion surfaced when we were traveling in Utah back in May. We drove through a new housing development area in St. George, UT. Jokingly said it'd be nice to live here - it's new, less congested, and very quiet... When we got to the hotel, my Facebook was populated with housing prices in St. George and the benefits of moving there - truly creepy!!!

Twenty five days later, on Monday, 6/17/24, over dinner, we had a conversation about Tesla's charging stations across the country, and the feasibility of taking Tesla on a long road trip. First thing on Tuesday, I got attachment 1 in my Twitter account. And then first thing on Wednesday, I got attachment 2 in my Twitter account. These were the tweets I'd never received in the past!!

So, I called Apple today describing the creepy experiences. I asked: "Do you think my iPhone is secretly listening to my conversations?" The answer... "YES!"

I asked: "How can I turn it OFF?" My simple question resulted in long struggles of trying everything - including random, illogical attempts trying to turn it OFF. When nothing worked, a Sr. Advisor was brought in. She was super nice, but unable to answer my question. Her answer... "Well, we don't know how to turn it OFF completely. But we can go through the options in Settings to help you eliminate potential places where the "Listening" may occur..."      

I carefully wrote down all the steps attempting to turn OFF the potential "spying" capabilities - in hope to help you avoid being spied on... I have no confidence that these steps would work, but happy to share what I was told.


Go to iPhone Settings:

1. Accessibility / Siri / Always Listen for "Siri" = OFF

2. Siri and Search / Allow Siri When Locked = OFF

3. Privacy and Security / Apple Advertising / Personalized Ads = OFF

4. Privacy and Security / Location Services / turn it OFF for some of the apps as you see fit

5. Safari / Prevent Cross Tracking = ON

6. Safari / Microphone = Deny

7. Settings / X (Twitter) / Allow Tracking = OFF

8. Settings / X (Twitter) / Siri and Search / Learn from this App = OFF 

 

Saturday, June 15, 2024

Utah Rocks

Southern Utah is such an unique place with otherworldly landscapes and few visitors. It's a pure luxury to have the whole place to yourself so you can truly hear the soft winds and the falling water...  

On this trip, I once again consciously chose to enjoy the beauty without heavy camera gears. I'm making great progress!! My end goal is to (one day) be able to travel without taking any photos -- not even with my iPhone. 

Do I really need to go that far??? -:))

Southern Utah
May 2024

iPhone Photos






Sunday, June 9, 2024

They're here!

The 7 adorable swan babies have arrived to the world with Peace and Love!!

Naperville, IL
June 5, 2024




 

Saturday, June 1, 2024

How???

Here is how the sausages were made...

Hope you can find me in attachment 3 -:))

Southern Utah
May 2024







 

Monday, May 27, 2024

Utah Trails

Not sure why I didn't make the effort to document the trails I covered last year in Colorado and the Canadian Rockies. But I'm devoting this entire entry to the trails we covered in Utah.

Utah is not unfamiliar to me -- I've been there countless times over the past 12 years. However, this is the first time I've seriously hiked in the area and truly experienced the breathtaking rock formations up close and personal. Haven't had a chance to process the photos... Let's just do the hiking trails today!
 
Attachment 1 is a clip of most of the hiking trails. A few of them didn't make the cut because of the size limits for the video.

Attachment 2 is the hiking trail under the harsh sunlight around noon with 88F. Only one word ran through my head over and over during the hike -- Endurance.

Escalante and Capitol Reef, Utah
May 2024