Thursday, May 21, 2020

My Dear Little Naper

Well, I said final good-bye to my dear little Naper at 6:17pm tonight.  He is out in the world on his own now.  Hope someone will love him the way I did...

Nothing more needs to be said.  Read the emails below, you'd understand how much little Naper meant to me over the years.

By the way, he went to Boston for 5 years (May 2014 to June 2019), came back last June.  I just kept him at home... for no reason...  And today, he left me for good!

Pictures below were taken in May 2014 when he was 11 years old.


----- Forwarded Message -----
From: Pei Tang <tang_pei@yahoo.com>
Sent: Sunday, May 25, 2014, 7:50:52 PM CDT
Subject: Re: My Little Naper

After 18 hours and 999.7 miles, my little Naper finally arrived in Boston today at 12:30 pm, safe and sound. 
As some of you may already know, he was once again a real little trooper during the 18 long hours from Naperville to Boston.  It's been a sentimental trip where I took pictures of him at every stop... I would take photos with my iPhone and sent them to my friends with the following narratives: 

My handsome little Naper in Indiana!

My lovely little Naper in Ohio, making his way to Boston! 

My beautiful little Naper in New York!

After 12 hours and 693 miles, my hard-working little Naper is going to spend the night at this peaceful place (Liverpool, NY)! 

My brave little Naper just came through dense fog and is resting at Little Falls, NY!

My loyal little Naper in MA.  Ironically, the car next to Naper is exactly the same as my new car, even has the same color! 

After 18 hours and 999.7 miles, my elegant little Naper finally arrived in Boston, safe and sound!

I asked myself "Do you really need to be so dramatic and sentimental about everything in life?"  That really got me think hard.  I don't believe I am trying to create drama.  But rather, because my life has been simplified to a point where literally everything I own has a deep purpose and special/meaningful use, I become very much attached to them -- to the very FEW things I have, and my little Naper is one of them!!! 
Now Naper is going to be with Michelle for the next few years.  I only said ONE simple thing to Michelle: "Love him the way I do!" 



From: Pei Tang <tang_pei@yahoo.com>
To: Pei Tang <tang_pei@yahoo.com>
Sent: Saturday, May 17, 2014 9:56 PM
Subject: My Little Naper

Believe it or not, my little Naper is leaving me! 

For those of you who don't know, Naper is my lovely little white Lexus, and he has been with me since summer of 2003.  He got his cute name when I had to relocate to Reno for my job in 2004.  At the time, he was the only thing that brought warmth and familiarity to my life out in the desert...  So I name him Naper (abbreviation for Naperville)!

Over the past 11 years, we've traveled through rain and snow, and we've thoroughly enjoyed spring flowers and fall colors... It has truly been an incredible journey.  I love my little Naper deeply, and he always loves me back with his unwavering loyalty and reliability!!! 

Well, Naper is going to Boston next weekend, and he will become Michelle's loyal friend -- I hope!
I completed a big full service for him this morning making sure everything is in good condition for Michelle.  I also took a few pictures for him today just so I can remember how incredibly beautiful and elegant he is... 
Here, meet my lovely little Naper!!!

By the way, for the past 11 years, the 2 little bears have always been in the back seat with their seat-belts securely fastened.  Their excellent behavior once touched a police officer.  When the officer pulled me over for some stupid reasons, he looked at the bears and smiled... so, I got a verbal warning instead of a ticket -- thank goodness to my 2 little bears!!   





Saturday, May 9, 2020

Larry Brilliant: TED Talks on Pandemic: 2020 and 2006

It's not that we lack brilliant minds in this country, the problem is we don't have the ability to listen, to comprehend and to act.

Larry Brilliant is an infectious disease expert who was deeply involved in ending smallpox for the world several decades earlier.  The following are the TED Talks he has given over the years.  The first one was from 2 weeks ago regarding Covid-19.  The second one was from 2006 where he laid out how to prevent a global pandemic (starting from 15-minute mark) - it was such a great aspiration! 

Friday, May 1, 2020

Listen to Your Life


Listen to your life.  See it for the fathomless mystery that it is.  In the boredom and pain of it, no less than in the excitement and gladness: touch, taste, smell your way to the holy and hidden heart of it, because in the last analysis, all moments are key moments, and life itself is grace.

-- Frederick Buechner  


True understanding is to see the events of life in this way: "You are here for my benefit, though rumor paints you otherwise."  And everything is turned to one's advantage when he greets a situation like this: "You are everything I was looking for."  Truly whatever arises in life is the right material to bring about your growth and the growth of those around you.  This, in a word, is art.  Everything contains some special purpose and a hidden blessing; what could be strange or arduous when all of life is here to greet you like an old and faithful friend?

-- Marcus Aurelius
 



Wisdom

The endless cycle of idea and action,
Endless invention, endless experiment,
Brings knowledge of motion, but not of stillness;
Knowledge of speech, but not of silence;
Knowledge of words, and ignorance of the Word...

Where is the Life we have lost in living?
Where is the wisdom we have lost in knowledge?
Where is the knowledge we have lost in information?

-- T. S. Eliot